Welcome! We’re glad you’re here.

The journey through infertility, especially after loss(es), preterm birth, or a high-risk pregnancy, can be overwhelming and lonely. We, at Team Ruvelle, would be honored to be on this journey with you as you navigate fertility treatments (again).

Choose the option that best describes where you are right now, and details on how we can support you will appear below.

I’m not ready to TTC yet but I don’t just want to sit on my hands and wait. What can I do?

You’re not alone. That in between period, when you know what’s coming, but you’re either not medically cleared and/or emotionally, physically, financially ready yet, is a tough place to be. One we’ve found our clients describe as making them antsy. Instead of just sitting on your hands, waiting for the green light, join us in Path to Pregnancy for actionable advice (beyond eat well and avoid the jacuzzi) on how to prepare yourself for fertility treatments and a future pregnancy.
>>Click here to learn more.<<
Use promo code FERTREF for $75 off.

I need help making a decision before we TTC.

There are so many decisions that need to be made when it comes to fertility treatments. From when to begin, to what type of treatment to try, to who to reach out to for a second opinion, and so much more. We have a consultation just for that. Click here to book a one-hour consultation with our founder, Parijat. With her expertise in somatic techniques, trauma-informed care, and health education, she will guide you through a science-backed decision-making framework so you can make the decision that is best for you. Partners are welcome on this call.
>> Click here to schedule your Preconception Decision Consultation <<

I get so anxious during the 2WW and I don’t want to feel that way again this time.

The 2WW is such an uncertain, anxiety-provoking time and we know there’s a lot riding on results of your first hCG test (and the secret pregnancy test we know you’ll take a few days before that). At Ruvelle, we offers laser-focused 30-minute strategy sessions during your two week wait to answer any questions or provide any support you need that day. You can schedule up to 3 sessions at a time, starting on your transfer or insemination day up until your beta day. Sessions fill up fast, so we recommend scheduling when you are certain of your 2WW dates.

>> Click here to register for 2WW support <<

I’m pregnant! But instead of being happy, I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop.

We know that feeling well. The moment you’ve been waiting for. The one you’ve given blood, sweat, tears (and so much money) to, is finally here. It’s supposed to be the green light to blissful excitement. But for you, it’s riddled with fear. It’s not in your head. Look at what you’ve survived. You know too much, and you’ve been through too much, to believe a positive pregnancy test is the end of a complicated path. You know it’s one of many milestones to hit. That’s why we created the Pregnancy Brain bundle.

Some fertility clinics have purchased this bundle on your behalf. Please inquire with them for a code to redeem your access at no cost to you.

If your fertility clinic did not participate in this program, you can sign up individually. Purchase the book (or request it from your local library), then work through the Pregnancy Brain course. It’s made exactly for you, the patient who knows too much to “just relax and be happy” but doesn’t want to miss a moment of this pregnancy you fought so hard for. Beyond offering solely emotional support, the neurosensory techniques we teach in the course have also been shown to help pregnancy health like elevated blood pressure and insomnia.

>> Click here to purchase Pregnancy Brain <<
>> Click here to register for the Pregnancy Brain Course <<
Use promo code PBCFERTREF at checkout for $75 off.

I don’t know what I need!

That’s ok. It’s a complicated time and sometimes your needs don’t fit neatly into a predetermined box. Schedule a Pick My Brain consultation, and in 30 minutes review as many questions or thoughts about your fertility treatment journey as you can with Parijat.

>> Click here to register for the Pick My Brain session <<

“I was angry and hating who I’d become after each [IUI] cycle. When I started the program, I couldn’t even put into words what I needed, but now it’s so clear. This isn’t psychotherapy where we just talk and talk. It’s action driven and goal oriented. It’s strange to say this but the silver lining on the cloud of infertility was my work with Parijat.”

– Ana V., IUI patient

I had no idea how much I didn’t know to ask my doctor (and HOW to ask it) until I started working with Parijat. I’m a Type A person, I thought I had my bases covered. But Parijat opened a curtain that showed me how much more I needed to know. She just gets it.

-Shilpa, IVF patient

“Pregnancy after loss is full of anxiety, worry, and stress. Emotions running high. Waiting for something to go wrong. Worried about feeling too positive and then anxious you’re not positive enough. Parijat has dedicated her work at Ruvelle to supporting those needing support. [Parijat is] such an amazing resource! Thank you for doing all you do to help and support people – you are doing so much good work.”

– Dr. Lora Shahine
recurrent pregnancy loss specialist at Pacific Northwest Fertility

“I was very stressed and anxious before [working with] Parijat. I’d had three miscarriages before and I didn’t think there was hope left. I found the program helpful because it gave me tips to cope with anxiety. It helped a lot that Parijat had gone through similar experience. By the end I felt relief from my constant anxiety which I didn’t think was possible.”

– Meg, patient

“The way [Parijat] breaks down complicated topics into understandable topics is very empowering. She explained things better than my doctor ever did and now I finally feel prepared to make some hard decisions.”

– Saniya, TTC patient

Parijat Deshpande, Founder of Ruvelle

Parijat Deshpande founded Ruvelle to work with medical providers and help patients improve their high-risk pregnancy outcomes and reduce the risk of preterm births. She has worked with hundreds of patients through IVF, pregnancy after recurrent pregnancy losses, second trimester losses, and stillbirths, as well as NICU stays.

She founded the Ruvelle after her personal experiences with primary and secondary infertility, multiple losses, a very high-risk pregnancy, an extremely preterm delivery, and a lengthy NICU stay, recognizing that the medical and mental health fields are lacking in trauma-informed, whole-body support for parents who are fighting to bring their children home. Her approach draws on her training in clinical psychology, psychoneuroimmunology, and sensorimotor techniques to help chronic/traumatic stress.

In her spare time, Parijat enjoys reading, writing, baking, and watching British crime thrillers.

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